I was having lunch with a male colleague (married and a father) and we got to telling funny stories. His “funny” story was this: A freshman female engineering student emailed him asking to interview him as part of a class assignment where the students are asked to interview someone in their target field to find out about life in that career. He agreed to do the interview and suggested they do it over dinner. He ordered drinks and ended up inviting her back to his house (wife was out of town) for a one night stand. He told the story so proudly, not realizing how unprofessional and appalling his behavior was. I was speechless.